I will turn 30 two months from today. It's kindof a thing, you know? There are a lot of things that They say should happen by the time a person reaches the age of 30 years old & to be honest, I've experienced a very small percentage. It bothers me some days. Other days it more than bothers me, but today I'm okay with it all. We're not all born on the same day, nor are we given specific instructions for our daily tasks- we're given choices and liberty and creative freedom and then we're supposed to make ourselves, to whittle this image and person and values. We're supposed to make our own person while seeing what others make, but don't copy! Be yourself! Be happy with who you are! It's a tricky thing & the truth is that we don't have all the answers. We find some and make others up and then hope that what we're doing works. The part that We forget sometimes is that during this process- this life- we can enjoy it. We don't need to feel bad that we aren't another person. We can love them, be thankful for them & the beauty they bring, but we don't need to wish that we are anyone beside ourselves. We are the best at it, no matter how many times we forget.